That's something that I hadn't thought to include before. I didn't care so much about my husband seeing me without the topper, but I did care about my kids (2 boys). They knew I had it because I had to take it off at night, and I was very bothered by that. They said I looked beautiful without it - sweet kids!
Once I bonded I knew I didn't want them to see me without me hair. Since then, they've asked where my "wig" went and I told them I don't wear it anymore. They have said my hair looks great and they don't know why I wore it before. I know I'm fibbing a little bit, but my new hair makes me feel more "human" and to them, I just look their mom again.